“It is never too late to have a happy childhood”
~Tom Robbins~
I could sugar coat it.
My childhood,
that is.
No~one wants to read of sadness and
abuse , do they?
Or do they?
Bookstores across the world have
shelves and shelves
of stories ( gut wrenching, horrible tales)
of miserable childhoods that seem to
appeal to people, they sell so fast.
I could write of endless days at the play park
and swings and
seaside holidays with buckets and spades.
Puppy dogs and gingham ribbons in my hair.
Fact,
those things didn't happen to me.
BUT...
what did happen ~
is that I grew into
( hopefully ) a fairly well adjusted adult.
I married and have two beautiful sons.
I relived a marvellous childhood
through them and with them.
Lego.
Football.
Cartoons.
Bedtime stories and funfairs.
Endless hugs and kisses.
Sand in our toes and sandwiches on days at the beach.
Childhood.
Loved.
Relived.
This post prompted by
The May Challenge, which you can read about
here.
The truth can be tough. As I age and observe the people that pass through my life I do realize that the complete happy childhoods probably seldom exist. At least not that perfect type you see on TV and movies. There was sad and scary times for me. I think our dad had plenty of issues. Pain is a strange thing that can at times protect us from further injury. Hopefully, you have gotten the help you needed. All the best.
ReplyDeleteI hear ya!! Best to remember that it isnt' the tragedies that made you stronger. It's the healing that made you who you are today. : )
ReplyDelete~Monika
First...so nice to meet you and thank you for joining in!
ReplyDeleteYour post reminds me so much of another blog peep, TechnoBabe, who also overcame difficult obstacles in childhood and made sure adulthood did not continue down the same path. http://www.thetechnobabe.com/
You have a wonderful outlook on life that you are passing on to your children.
Thank you very much for this entry in the challenge!
In spite of it all you triumphed! Blessings to you.
ReplyDeleteWOW! I've never had this many comments before! THANK YOU!
ReplyDeletelisleman, I still struggle with self esteem issues, but thanks to my darling husband I'm so much stronger now.
My Sweet Prairie, thank you for your lovely comment, I totally agree!
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Anna
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Geri, thank you. You made my heart fill with gratitude.
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And....Jillsy Girl
ReplyDeleteit's so lovely to meet you too!
Thank you for your lovely blog. I'm very shy about my writing and when I got to ten followers here I got really nervous lol!
I enjoyed the challenge so much, and I love reading your blog.
Here's to new friendships and love!
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I love it! :) This is such a personal, honest post, and I think the Tom Robbins quote is spot on! I think it's amazing that you were able to relive the childhood you didn't have through raising your sons. I can only agree with, and reiterate, the above comments. You are a very beautiful lady, and I am proud to call you my dear friend :-)
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What a wonderful honest look at childhood.
ReplyDeleteKess my darling, thank you!
ReplyDelete( As ever , you touch my heart at the deepest level. )
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Anna
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ladyfi, thank you so much! Oh, and welcome to my blog.
ReplyDeletePlease come back!
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